People want to control everything they can. Time. Travel. Food. Clothing. Religion. Politics. Employment. Sports. Money. Relationships. Other people. Phew- that is a lot of pressure! What I have found, especially recently, is the great pleasures and spiritual benefits of losing this control. What I am proposing is intentionally placing ourselves in situations that force us to experience this lack of control. This lack of control often provides a greater opportunity for spontaneity and relationships.
Today's example: riding the city the bus. The bus, though often far slower than driving, provides a means to not only meet people and build community, but puts me in a place where I cannot even pretend to control the outcome. I might be late. I might miss the next bus. I cannot make it go any faster. I cannot choose how many times I stop along the way. Sometimes, I cannot even pick where I sit. Life quickly becomes more of an adventure and it becomes easier to see the beauty of the world and of the people around me. An added benefit: less stress. It seems clear to me that the many things we believe we need to control create a great deal of pressure on us. Intentionally putting myself in situations that curb this seemingly instinctual habit has literally lowered my worry levels. What am I to do about something that I have no control over? My choices become simple: enjoy the journey and continue to learn, or be miserable and depressed. I believe we are called to the prior.
Matthew 6:27-29
Can all your worries add a single moment to your life? And why worry about your clothing? Look at the lilies of the field and how they grow. They don't work or make their clothing, yet Solomon in all his glory was not dressed as beautifully as they are.
Proverbs 12:25
Worry weighs a person down; an encouraging word cheers a person up.
Philippians 4:6-7
Don't worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.
Matthew 6:31-33
So don't worry about these things, saying, 'What will we eat? What will we drink? What will we wear?' These things dominate the thoughts of unbelievers, but your heavenly Father already knows all your needs. Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need.
Is it possible that we really find peace in situations that seem backwards and counter cultural? Is it possible that our empire and socioeconomic system has bred us to live in ways that are harmful to our souls? To all these questions, a clear and simple, "yes" resounds from my innermost being.